Quit your job to take a better paying position? Definitely.
Quit your job for a great opportunity? Absolutely.But there are a lot more
reasons to quit your job (once you have something else lined up, of course.)
And they all fall under one main category:
Life’s too short.Life’s too short to go home every day
feeling unfulfilled. Life's too short to work for a terrible boss. Life’s too
short to go home every day feeling taken for granted, feeling taken less than
seriously, or feeling taken advantage of.
Life’s short to not be as happy as you can be.Say your grown
daughter called and said, “I hate my job. I’m bored, frustrated, and feel like
I'm going nowhere.” Wouldn’t you tell her to look for another job?Shouldn’t you
follow the same advice?
Here are reasons to stop being miserable and start looking
for something better:
1. Your input is disregarded… or even not wanted-Everyone has
ideas. And everyone loves when their ideas are taken seriously – and
implemented. The feeling that you’ve contributed in a special way is incredibly
gratifying.But when your boss or company shoots down or even laughs at your
ideas, that’s not only insulting, it's demotivating. And pretty soon you stop
caring.Life’s too short not to care.
2. You get criticized publicly-We all need constructive feedback.
We all need a little nudge. We all need to be told when we can do something
better – and how to do it better.But we need to be told those things in
private.Life’s too short to walk around waiting for the next time you’ll be criticized
– and even humiliated – in front of other people.
3. You never hear the word, “Thanks.”-Everyone also needs
praise. We all need to know when we do something well (and everyone, even poor
performers, do some things well.)Life’s too short not to be recognized for the
contributions you make.
4. Your boss manages up, not down-You know the type: as a leader
they should focus their time and attention on their direct reports, but they
spend all their time “following” their boss. It seems like your only job is to
contribute to the greater glory – and advancement – of your boss.A great boss
knows that if his/her team succeeds –
and each individual on that team succeeds – then he/she will succeed too.Life’s
too short to spend your time developing your boss’s career at the expense of
your own.
5. You feel like you have no purpose-Everyone likes to feel a part
of something bigger. Everyone likes to feel they make an impact not just on
results but also on the lives of other people.Life’s too short to go home every
day feeling like you’ve worked… but you haven’t accomplished anything
meaningful.
6. You feel like a number-Everyone is replaceable. Everyone,
ultimately, works for a paycheck. But everyone also wants to work for more than
a paycheck. They want to work with people they respect admire… and they want to
be respected and admired in return.If your boss doesn’t occasionally stop for a
quick discussion about family, an informal conversation to see if you need an
help, or simply to say a kind word… then you’re just a cog in a larger machine.Life’s
too short to only be a cog in a larger machine.
7. You aren’t even mildly excited to go to work-Every job has its
downsides. (I’m willing to bet even Richard Branson has to do a few things he
doesn’t enjoy.) But every job should also have some fun moments. Or exciting
moments. Or challenging moments. Or some aspect that makes you think, “I’m
looking forward to doing that…”Life’s too short to spend only looking forward
to quitting time.
8. You can’t see a future-Every job should lead to
something: hopefully a promotion, but if not the opportunity to take on
additional responsibilities, learn new things, tackle new challenges… to feel
like tomorrow has the potential to be different – in a good way – than today.A
decent boss works to improve the company’s future. A good boss works to improve
her employees’ futures too, even if – especially if – that might mean some of
those employees will eventually move on to bigger and better things.Life’s too
short to live without hope.
9. You don’t think you can do anything else.-That’s the
best reason of all quit your job. I know what you’re thinking, “I make too much
in my current job; I’ll never find something comparable.” Or, “There just
aren’t any jobs where I live.” Or, “I’ve put too much time into this company
(or career or industry.)”
All those things are true – if you let them be true.
You can do something else. You can do lots of something
"elses."
You just have to believe – and trust that your creativity,
perseverance, and effort will take you to new, happier, and more fulfilling
places.
Life's too short to just stay where you are instead doing
everything possible to live a better life.
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